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  ISLAM BEING A
TRUE RELIGION OF ALLAH:
3:19. Truly, the religion with Allâh is Islâm.
Those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) did not differ except,
out of mutual jealousy, after knowledge had come to them. And whoever
disbelieves in the Ayât (proofs, evidences, verses, signs, revelations, etc.)
of Allâh, then surely, Allâh is Swift in calling to account.
2: 253. Those Messengers! We preferred some to
others; to some of them Allâh spoke (directly); others He raised to degrees (of
honour); and to 'Iesa (Jesus), the son of Maryam (Mary), We gave clear proofs
and evidences, and supported him with Rûh-ul-Qudus [Jibrael (Gabriel)]. If
Allâh had willed, succeeding generations would not have fought against each
other, after clear Verses of Allâh had come to them, but they differed - some
of them believed and others disbelieved. If Allâh had willed, they would not
have fought against one another, but Allâh does what He likes.
42: 14. And they divided not till after
knowledge had come to them, through selfish transgression between themselves.
And had it not been for a Word that went forth before from your Lord for an
appointed term, the matter would have been settled between them. And verily,
those who were made to inherit the Scripture [i.e. the Taurâh (Torah) and the
Injeel (Gospel)] after them (i.e. Jews and Christians) are in grave doubt
concerning it (i.e. Allâh's true religion Islâm or the Qur'ân).
45: 17. And gave them clear proofs in matters
[by revealing to them the Taurât (Torah)]. And they differed not until after
the knowledge came to them, through envy among themselves. Verily, Your Lord
will judge between them on the Day of Resurrection about that wherein they used
to differ.
98: 4. And the people of the Scripture (Jews
and Christians) differed not until after there came to them clear evidence.
(i.e. Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) and whatever was revealed to him).
6: 116. And if you obey most of those on
earth, they will mislead you far away from Allâh's Path. They follow
nothing but conjectures, and they do nothing but lie.
6: 119. And why should you not eat of that
(meat) on which Allâh's Name has been pronounced (at the time of slaughtering
the animal), while He has explained to you in detail what is forbidden to you,
except under compulsion of necessity? And surely many do lead (mankind) astray
by their own desires through lack of knowledge. Certainly your Lord knows
best the transgressors.
43: 22. Nay! They say: "We found our
fathers following a certain way and religion, and we guide ourselves by their
footsteps."
3: 85. And whoever seeks of the losers.
6:21. And who does more wrong than he who
invents a lie against Allâh or rejects His Ayât (proofs, evidences, verses,
lessons, revelations, etc.)? Verily, the Zâlimûn (polytheists and wrong­doers,
etc.) shall never be successful.
98:2. A Messenger (Muhammad (Peace be upon
him)) from Allâh, reciting (the Qur'ân) purified pages [purified from Al-Bâtil
(falsehood, etc.)].
3. Containing correct and straight laws from
Allâh.
a religion other than Islâm, it will never be
accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one

Thursday 15 December 2016

By permitting divorce has not the Qur’an involved itself in creating helpless women and children? The general objective of the Qur’anic laws is the preservation of the marital relationship unto death. However, by no means does it seek to remain in the dark with regard to the difficulties associated with human nature. It may be that there exist quarrels and incompatibilities amongst spouses. These can even lead to the disruption of the family. The thirty - fourth verse of surah Nisa deals with the measures that a man has to undertake in order to save the family from disintegration in the event that the problem has been due to the woman’s lack of discipline and obedience…Counsel, advice, separation from bed, beating – all of these are meant to save the family from breaking up. The Qur’an has further commanded that no punishment must be carried out against the spouse who, with other measures taken against her, turns away from indiscipline. “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because God has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband’s) absence what God would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly); But if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance): For God is Most High, Great (above you all).” (4: 34). The Qur’an has provided for measures that would save the family from disintegration. It is, however, not the Qur’an’s injunction that divorce must be resorted to as soon as it is seen that problems continue to persist even after all other measures have been taken. On the other hand, it stresses upon the need for the other family members to sincerely mediate between the estranged spouses and help them to come closer. Indeed, the Qur’an does say that when an attempt at reconciliation is being made in all sincerity, Allah will provide ways and means for the purpose. “If ye fear a breach between them twain, appoint (two) arbiters, one from his family, and the other from hers; if they wish for peace, God will cause their reconciliation : for God hath full knowledge, and is acquainted with all things.” (H.Q 4: 35). It is also true that the Qur’an permits the dissolution of the marriage tie if all such attempts at reconciliation between the spouses fail. Indeed, when the partners are forced to live together as husband and wife even when all attempts at reconciliation fail it will be more the case of a bondage, rather than a bond, that will exist between the two. Leaving such bondages untied will only lead to a situation where it will have to be cut through. This is what transpires in communities wherein divorce is not permitted. It is in such circumstances, where the bondage is to be untied, that the Qur’an has permitted divorce. It can also be seen that besides permitting divorce in such situations, the Prophet had also instructed that both partners must exert to their utmost to avoid such an eventuality. He had said: “In the sight of Allah the most hated amongst the permissible things is divorce.” (Abu Dawood, Ibn Majah). The Qur’an had, as in the case of all other matters, only served to improve upon and civilize the practice of divorce as it existed at that time so that it may be made as acceptable and suitable for mankind as possible. It is quite true that almost all legal codes in the world do permit divorce. Several legal codes, however, see divorce as a weapon that can be used indiscriminately by man against woman. The Qur’an has brought about a change in such a state of affairs and has presented divorce as an option that is permitted only in the most critical of eventualities. Manu spoke of divorce thus: “Vandhyasta medhi vedhyabdhe deshamedumrthepraja ekadashe sthreejanam satyasta priya vaadiui” (Manusmrithi 9:81). “A barren wife may be superseded in the eighth year; one whose children have died, in the tenth; one who bears (only) daughters, in the eleventh; but one who says unpleasant things (may be superseded) immediately” It is especially relevant that the Qur’an does not instruct one to discard one’s wife if she be barren or is suffering from other ailments. It is cruel that the woman be divorced for no crime of hers for, after all, barreness, giving birth to a stillborn, or to female off springs alone: these are all cases that go beyond her control and she can have no part, whatsoever. The Qur’an does not stand by such cruelty. It is also unjust that the woman who displeases is discarded straight away. The Qur’anic recommendation is that she be allowed the opportunity to correct herself and she be divorced if, and only if, she refuses to comply, thereby, leading to a situation where such a course of action is made expedient. The Qur’an further instructs that the woman be given a further remuneration at the time of the divorce. “For divorced women maintenance (should be provided) on a reasonable (scale). This is a duty on the righteous.”(H.Q 2:241). Thus, the prescription of the Manu smrithi that the ‘divorced women are to be given nothing’ is quite alien to the Qur’an. What is the stand of Marxism, which itself claimed to be the ideology of the twentieth century, on this issue? Let the Marxist ideologues speak for themselves: “It is not possible for any to say how long the individual tendencies for sexual love will last for each person, particularly for the man. It is better that divorce be resorted to as soon as it becomes clear that all love has drained away or that it has been channeled into another receptor. If that be done, it will be a blessing for the partners themselves and for the society as a whole.” (Marx, Engels: Selected Writings, Volume 3, P.319) It is the stand of communism that divorce be resorted to as soon as all love drains off. The Qur’an disagrees with this attitude. In the Qur’anic vision, love is never a material commodity that exhausts itself. It is, in fact, a divine gift. It ceases to exist only because of the changes that take place in the material world. Lust and love are never the same. It is not the recommendation of the Qur’an that the marriage bond be dissolved on the mere pretext that all love has dissipated owing to problems between the spouses. The Qur’an has chalked out the ways in which those problems can be resolved after they have been properly identified. In the Qur’an’s view divorce becomes the better option only when all attempts at reconciliation fail and the spouses keep on growing apart from each other. Marxism sees love as a material commodity and recommends divorce as a solution as soon as it dissipates. Indeed, it is a solution that is part and parcel of its vision of society. It was about just such a society that the greatest Marxist ideologue of India had commented thus: “They are free to chose the mate of their liking and to live the married life so long as it suits them. If any of the partners were to dislike the arrangement, divorce could be had and, if so desirous, they could chose another mate and settle down to yet another married life. It is just to bring about such a state of affairs that Democracy as well as Socialism, which is its higher form, functions.” (E.M.S: Chinda weekly, 25th November, 1983) It is clear that divorce will be a daily occurrence in a society as envisioned by communism. It is never such a society which Islam conceives. It is for the same reason, therefore, that the Qur’an introduces divorce as an option that is permitted only in the most inevitable of circumstances. It is clear from the Old Testament of the Bible that divorce was permitted in Israeli society. It was a divorce that was not subject to any conditions, whatsoever. The only condition that did exist was that if the divorced woman was again divorced by her next husband she could not be married to her first husband again. Observe how this is explained in the Old Testament of the Bible: “When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house,when she has departed from his house and goes and becomes another man’s wife, if the latter husband detests her and writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, or if the latter husband dies who took her as his wife, then her former husband who divorced her must not take her back to be his wife after she has been defiled; for that is an abomination before the Lord, and you shall not bring sin on the land which the Lord our God is giving you as an inheritance.” (Deuteronomy24:14) The same idea can be found in the book of Jeremiah (3:1,2). From this it may be understood that divorce was prevalent amongst the Jews. This is, however, not the case with the New Testament. There are verses in the gospels and the words of Paul, which explicitly prohibits divorce. “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.” (Mathew 19:9) “So He said to them, ‘Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her.’And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10 :11,12) “But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.” (Mathew 5:32) “Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.” (1 Corinthians 7:10,11) It need not be emphasized that these are instructions that make divorce quite impossible. The only thing that makes divorce possible is adultery on the part of the woman. According to the laws of the New Testament it is also a sin to marry a woman who has been divorced by her husband. Cases wherein divorce becomes impossible will further lead to extremely dangerous situations. For it is possible that, at least in a few instances, the wedlock actually turns out to be a burden and a bondage. In such instances the lack of freedom to untie the knots of such bondage can lead to grave dangers. In fact, the Christian community is indeed, facing such dangers presently. In countries, which have accepted the Christian way of life, voices are now being raised for relaxing the laws prohibiting divorce. It is now being said that one of the reasons for laxity in the moral plane, in these lands, is the very existence of such laws. What is it that is happening in those lands? The husband and wife both harbour mutual animosity towards each other. Indeed, such animosity often prevails in families and it prevents them from living in harmony together. They continue to grow apart from each other. All sorts of problems and quarrels take place. The man, in order to satisfy his sexual desires, finds gratification with call girls or his girl friends. The woman takes recourse to giglo (male prostitutes) or incest to satisfy her sexual desire. Both remain as husband and wife! There are with them their children as well! But is it possible to call this group a family? What will be the condition of the children belonging to this family? Studies have revealed that the tendency for crime and other mental ailments that develop in children are all primarily because of such a disturbed family atmosphere. Take the case of India itself. As far as the Christians are concerned, the only way for divorce is to prove that the husband or the wife has indulged in adultery. For those who yearn for separation it then becomes possible to create circumstances that can make of the other half an adulterer (or an adulteress). Even if there are those who can prove their innocence under these circumstances, evidence to brand them as adulterers is then fabricated. Righteous men and women are finally branded as adulterers with not a little help from the silver tongued oratory of the lawyer who argues successfully against them in the courtroom. In the event that even this proves useless and the defendant manages to cross the scrutiny of the court of laws, a ‘solution’ for the problem is quickly found in an exploding gas stove or through food poisoning. It is the contention of the Qur’an that such a state of affairs can never be allowed to transpire. It is, thus, that we feel the laws of divorce that it envisages to be strict, at the same time, yet practicably easy. The atmosphere of love, compassion and peace that must reign within the family is, however, not one that is to be enforced with the rod of law. It should emanate from that love which binds two hearts together. Indeed, it is futile to even try to reconcile hearts that have grown apart simply through the use of law. It is necessary, in all such instances, to identify the causes for this loss of love and to treat them accordingly. It is this treatment that the Qur’an recommends when cracks develop within the institution of the family. In the view of the Qur’an divorce must be resorted to only when all such methods of treatment fail. In such a situation all solutions other than separation quite often complicates the problem even further and leads to unfavourable and unsavoury incidents. More than the man, it is the woman who suffers the most owing to such incidents. It can, therefore, be asserted in the most unambiguous of terms that by permitting divorce under inevitable circumstances, the Qur’an has, far from putting the woman in any difficulty, actually protected her. Contemporary events, too, provide for lessons in this direction. Does not the Qur’an see the wife as a mere instrument that can be disposed off by uttering Talaq thrice? No. It is from the misunderstanding about Talaq that this doubt find its origin. Technically, Talaq refers to that act of the man whereby he uses his authority to dissolve the marriage tie. It is the Qur’an’s position that all efforts must be made to avoid situations that will lead to Talaq. It commands that even in the case where the man dislikes his mate, he is to strive to share his life with her to the extent that it is possible to do so. “O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may take away part of the dower ye have given them, - except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it maybe that ye dislike a thing, and God brings about through it a great deal of good.”(4:19). In the Qur’an’s view everything must be done to maintain the unity of the spouses. However, there is no harm in their separating from each other in situations wherein all love and unity dissipates and the very purpose of marital itself is not served. When it is the man who initiates procedures for this separation the process is referred to as Talaq. Islam has prohibited the divorcing of women during periods of their menstrual cycle. It has been proven that the mental and physical faculties of the woman undergo perceptible changes during this period. She will, during such periods, be short tempered and prone to lapses of memory. It is thus quite possible that there will ensue quarrels between the spouses during periods of the menstrual cycle. This quarrel cannot be allowed to lead to divorce. Furthermore, sexual activity between the spouses, which serve the function of generating mutual interest and goodwill between the two, is rendered prohibitive during this period. It is in the bedroom that, after all, most quarrels are resolved. Sex that follows after the end of the menstrual cycle usually proves sufficient to set aside quarrels that arise during that period. Thus, the Prophet taught that it is not permissible to divorce one’s wife during her periods and that it is obligatory for those who have done so to take her back. The man who divorces his wife after her menstrual period must, however, not turn her out of his house. She must not on her own leave her husband’s house either. She is to remain in the house for a period that covers three menstrual cycles. This period is three months for those women who are past their menstrual courses and for the pregnant it covers the period upto childbirth. This period is technically termed as Idha period. It is the legislation of the Qur’an that the divorced woman is to live this period in the house of her husband itself. “Divorced women shall wait concerning themselves for three monthly periods. Nor is it lawful for them to hide what God hath created in their wombs, if they have faith in God and the last day. And their husbands have the better right to take them back in that period, if they wish for reconciliation. The women shall have rights similar to the rights against them, according to what is equitable; but men have a degree (of advantage) over them. And God is exalted in Power, Wise.”(2:228). “O Prophet! When ye do divorce women, divorce them at their prescribed periods, and count (accurately) their prescribed periods: And fear God, your Lord: And turn them not out of their houses, nor shall they (themselves) leave, except in case they are guilty of some open lewdness, those are limits set by God: and any who transgresses the limits of God does verily wrong his (own) soul: Thou knowest not if perchance God will bring about thereafter some new situation.Thus when they fulfil their term appointed, either take them back on equitable terms or part with them on equitable terms; and take for witness two persons from among you, endued with justice, and establish the evidence (as) before God. Such is the admonition given to him who believes in God and the last day. And for those who fear God, he (ever) prepares a way out.”(65:1,2) The man and the woman do not really live as husband and wife during the Idha period. But nor are they strangers either. After all, it is in the house of the man that she continues to live. It will be of use in helping the partners to change their minds if the woman remains in the house of her husband even after divorce. Two people who, till yesterday, had slept together, today stays apart from each other. Furthermore, he continues to live watching her. This would, indeed, serve to generate in him old desires and perhaps even to bring down his temper as well. The man has the right to take her back during the period of the Idha. This is quite unconditionally possible for him. How scientific, indeed, is the path adopted by the Qur’an in saving the institution of the family from disruption; and all this even while not taking recourse to the implementation of a more drastic measure. Consider the case where divorce has been solemnized. Further, the woman completes the period of the three menstrual cycles in the house of her husband. There is, however, no way of getting them to be together once again. There can then be no option here but that of separation. It is, however, the Qur’an’s instruction that even this divorce has to be carried out in the most amicable way. “But if ye decide to take one wife in place of another, even if ye had given the latter a whole treasure for dower, take not the least bit of it back: Would ye take it by slander and a manifest wrong?” (4:20). But if the divorce takes place even before one comes into physical contact with one’s wife, she needs to be given only half the dowry that was agreed upon. (2:237). The Qur’an further instructs that the woman should be given a fair compensation at the time of the divorce. “For divorced women maintenance (should be provided) on a reasonable (scale). This is a duty on the righteous.” (2:241). If a man divorces a woman and after a while he regrets his action. Further, the divorced woman has not been remarried yet. He is filled now with the longing to have her back as his wife. Here the Qur’an permits him to remarry her. Supposing now that he divorces the woman yet again after having remarried her. He then has the right to have her back just one more time. If he were to divorce her again for a third time he cannot take her back again. This is the three Talaq system that has been mentioned by the Qur’an. Let the Qur’an itself speak: “A divorce is only permissible twice: after that, the parties should either hold together on equitable terms, or separate with kindness. It is not lawful for you, (men), to take back any of your gifts (from your wives ), except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by God. If ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by God, there is no blame on either of them if she give something for her freedom. These are the limits ordained by God; so do not transgress them. If any do transgress the limits ordained by God, such persons wrong (themselves as well as others). So if a husband divorces his wife (irrevocably), he cannot, after that remarry her until after she has married another husband and he has divorced her. In that case there is no blame on either of them if they re-unite, provided they feel that they can keep the limits ordained by God. Such are the limits ordained by God, which he makes plain to those who understand.”(2:229,230). This is the three-Talaq system that finds mention in the Qur’an. All three are divorces that take place at three separate instances. There is no difference of opinion amongst the vast majority of the leading Muslim jurists over the ruling that it is prohibited to pronounce three talaqs in one go. Umar (R) ordered the whipping of a man who had uttered all three talaqs at the same time and instructed that he be beaten for doing so. The great aversion, in Islam, to this form of pronouncement may be understood from this one incident. In reality, the three-talaq system of divorce is most-suited to the nature of woman. A man who lives with his wife in accordance with the dictates of the Qur’an and has, in his heart, even the least iota of love, will not be able to pronounce talaq the third time. He would definitely strive to seek out, and employ, ways and means to continue living with his wife before he even attempts to pronounce talaq a third time. Indeed, he would be ever conscious of the pain of separation that he had undergone on two earlier occasions. He would, therefore, divorce her a third time only under the influence of the most intense conviction that they can never again get along together with their lives.